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Sometimes You Will Think Nobody Cares About You — Until You Fail or Succeed
Many times, people think that nobody truly cares. But you can’t conclude that as a fact! Most times, the people you look up to are simply not in a position to help you — until you attain a good measure of result all by yourself. Even God cannot help you when you have done nothing in your own little capacity.
Nobody believes until you prove them wrong
You must learn to strive on, with or without help — for it is in your striving process that you will encounter helpers. Nobody believes you can until you prove them wrong with a little step of success, not looking back! They just want to see your courage before they back you up with the support they can rightly offer.
But when you give up on your vision, it proves you were never serious in the first place. And hear this: there are people who will get angry with you for such a decision — because they are waiting for you on the road to greater heights to push you forward!
Catch a vision to live for — or die for
This is one reason why you must be sure that you have truly captured a vision: a vision to live for — or die for — no matter what comes your way, to fulfill destiny. A casual wish will not survive the road. Only a captured vision will!
Success attracts helpers
You will see that people care about your fulfillment the moment you attain a little measure of success. That is when they will do all they can to invest in your potential — since they have seen a little reality of it in action. Sometimes they can even see beyond what you can achieve, if you put in more effort using the help they provide. Despise not the day of small things (Zechariah 4:10) — your small beginning is the advertisement for your coming greatness!
Maybe it is your marriage, your job, your talent — whatever you are looking to deal with right now. You must understand that people are watching: watching your strength and willpower — how you fight through it with what you have available at hand. Yet they expect you to win, with or without their help. Everyone, that is, except your enemies, who wish you ill.
Stop blaming; start striving
So you must always learn to strive on — to prove them right or wrong, as the case may be — without putting blame on anyone for your failures. For you alone are responsible for everything happening in your life. Yes, you!
You are therefore required to fight the fight and attain a good measure of success, so that your helpers can see you quickly and push you to your next level of breakthrough. They just want to see your faith by your works (James 2:18). Show it to them!
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